Its been a while since I've posted on here, but a lot has happened. A four year relationship came to an end. Even though it is a big change, I still love those four years for what they were. I guess I just want you 'post-the-lovers' who read this to remember this if you ever find yourself in a similar situation. Breaking up does not have to be full of hate or resentment, because for that part of your life, it was right. Cherish what you had, learn from it, and look forward to what is to come. Because ...