Deal with whatever fugitive anger still needs to be examined - it may not look like anger; it may look like compulsive dieting or bingeing or exercising or shopping. You must find a path and a person to help you deal with that anger.

It's going to be unbelivably hard somedays - like the rawness of birth, all that blood and those fluids and the shouting, terrible, hard things - But then there will be that wonderful child. And that wonderful child is YOU, with your exact mind and butt and thighs and goofy greatness.
Dealing with your rage and grief will give you life.
Einstein said - "there's always something ending and something beginning"
IN THE VERY CENTER IS YOU; FABULOUS, HILARIOUS, DARLING, SCREWED UP YOU!
Another excerpt from an article on the Oprah website - about finding yourself, your inner truth.